Surprise people who complain that they can not meet. At the same time, their life is quite diverse and is not limited to the “pony circle” “work – home – work”. There are many places for acquaintances, and one of the centers of the “shura-mura” front is the gym. And it doesn’t matter who the hunt is on: a guy or a girl.
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Calculation of the object of hunting
Before deploying large-scale actions, you need to calculate a person who is not connected with a relationship. The first is the hands. Specifically, fingers. The Ringed also play sports, but they are taboo. Let them sculpt themselves for their halves.
Distracted people tend to focus on the workout itself. They take little time to rest between sets. They came, they worked, they left. They do not look around the room, do not hold their eyes on other visitors, do not waste time on the phone. They have a strict schedule. This gives reason to assume that they have someone, they are busy with a bunch of other things, and they don’t intend to get to know each other at all.
Those who spend time in the gym for pleasure, walk relaxed between the simulators, calmly wait for their turn, drink some water, flip through the phone and look at other people, are most likely free. By the way, they are also betrayed by an evaluating look directed at persons of the opposite sex. Girls look at boys, boys look at girls. So they are the finished objects, or they themselves are in the process of hunting.
Schedule
People go to the hall according to a certain schedule. Everyone has free time, and, as a rule, it is permanent. This should be used to the maximum. Did you like the object? Does it run at a certain time? Perfect. This means that your schedule is adjusted to the person, and you need to appear in the hall with him. This leads to the fact that a person gets used to the constant presence of the same persons, and people cease to be completely outsiders.
Literally after a few such classes, well-mannered people begin to say hello. So this is an excellent seed to start offensive operations. First in passing, then more specifically, and a little later with the wishes of a good workout and a great day. It is still too early to ask for a name, they will start this a little later. The main thing is not to be imposed and not to faint if the person kept silent or showed that he did not want to get acquainted.
Minute X
Eye contact must be established before the siege begins. Do not stare at a person, he may misunderstand. It is enough to look and look away. The main thing is to catch the moment of coincidence. What a guy, what a girl, unconsciously they themselves will begin to look for eye contact, if you don’t mind getting to know each other. A few of these “shootouts” and you can add a smile.
Then you need to adjust to the frequency of exercises. When a person presses the barbell, he has no time to talk about the weather. He is focused on the process. So it’s worth waiting for it to be released. And you don’t have to stand over your soul, there are a lot of free simulators. As for the guys, taxiing to the lady, sweating and smelling like a dog, then failure is guaranteed. So you need to roll up as much as possible at the beginning of the workout. Well, the warm-up process is still going on.
When the subject has finished the exercise, it is easier to approach. The person is relaxed, thinks about his own, can exchange a couple of phrases. The question can be anything, up to the banal “is he going to take this simulator.” The main thing is to start. Girls are a little easier. Seeing that she is about to start the exercise on the simulator with insurance, you need to offer your services. And you can do it without much fuss. Came and insured. Only without eating with the eyes, the lady does not look like ice at such a moment. Just insurance! By the way, a chic occasion to ask the name of a person.
As for the girls, you can ask to insure or hang a couple of pancakes. Guys rarely refuse. If he is all of himself Apollo Belvedere, then, of course, the stigma will turn. But the gentleman will not refuse. Also gives a couple of tips. And yes, such a chip rolls with a bang with those guys who looked at the petitioner with interest. Well, what to do, the guys are sometimes so stupid and shy that you have to take the initiative into your own hands.
Maybe a seagull?
Modern halls are equipped with sports bars that offer a variety of drinks. A great excuse to invite or join an object. Joint rest after training should be connected when communication is established. This takes about two weeks. It’s not even worth trying before.
Topics for conversation at such moments should only concern classes. After all, this is the only converging factor so far. Just don’t ask questions about “before”. Talking about results, about mistakes in the process, about nutrition is great. In general, about everything related to fitness. And praise! Nothing without this. Praising a person awakens both interest and confidence in him, and praise works for rapprochement just gorgeous.
Still, the gym is a great place to meet. Much better than a club or site. Well, only time will tell how successful it will be.
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