Alarm signal: falling in love looks like insanity

Ah, love! A feeling sung by some, despised by others and frightening by others.

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Romantic relationships are designed to help two people find happiness and harmony. If one of the parties begins to dissolve in the relationship and becomes dependent, expect trouble.

How to understand that you are on the verge of madness from love:


To be able to forgive is the lot of strong people. But if in a healthy relationship, partners resolve conflicts, express their claims and come to a decision together, then a crazy girl in love is ready to make any concessions in order to save the relationship. Deception, betrayal, humiliation and insults, coldness, manipulation and so on – you will find an excuse for everything. He does not even need to come up with excuses, make amends and beg for forgiveness.

You will do everything yourself. Naughty? It’s her own fault, she climbed under a hot hand. Deceived me to spend the evening in the company of dubious acquaintances? He has a difficult period in his life, you think, I will sit alone on my birthday. None of my friends and family like him and they beg me to leave him? They are just jealous/jealous/do not see his subtle nature.

Not everything is forgivable. Do not be afraid that by showing your teeth, you will be left alone. Otherwise, they will wipe their feet on you, and then they will accuse you of breaking off relations: “You are too good, I’m bored.”

One for all and all for one

You are ready to leave all your friends and family if necessary. Go to a friend’s bachelorette party or wait for him at home with a three-course dinner? The answer is obvious!

If you were previously a person who could not say “no” and was ready to give the last shirt to a stranger, then your behavior is a consequence of your character traits.

In other cases, these are clear signs of dependence on the guy. He can disappear for several days without explaining anything, but as soon as he appears on the horizon and beckons you with his finger, you fly towards him, wagging your imaginary tail. Years of friendship with girlfriends are not worth an hour spent with him. If he asks, you will refuse everyone who surrounds you, just to be with him. He doesn’t like your girlfriend and he gives you an ultimatum “either I or she”, and now you are already breaking off friendship with a person who knew you when you didn’t even shave your legs.

Do you love yourself, value your friends – you do not ask yourself these questions. There is only a relationship with him, and for the sake of maintaining them, you are ready to give up everything.

Social media addiction

If he doesn’t text you “Good morning” or wish you good night, you are already in tears and reflecting “what did I do wrong?”.

You update his social networks as a standard at least once an hour. It seems you even learned to do it in your sleep. Of course, all his posts are carefully checked for likes from the former and all possible future girls. You have notifications about his publications wherever possible.

You never turn off your phone and take it with you both to the bath and to the toilet, so as not to miss a message from him and not make him wait.

Again, messages from friends, colleagues, and relatives are far less important to you.

If he does not answer you within an hour, you are already throwing tantrums, howling “you don’t love me” in tears and snot and driving both yourself and him crazy. She herself is ready to call and write to him 24/7.


Irrational and unbridled. You are jealous of him for all the fair sex. If, God forbid, you hear someone’s nasty (for you, all women have become a priori dangerous) female voice on the phone, you are ready to tear and throw.

You don’t like his friends. Whether they’re inventing a cure for cancer or running a puppy shelter, they’re your competition. After all, the precious time that he could spend on you, he spends on them! Blasphemy!

Any of his contact with the female sex is a reason for scandal and weekly insomnia for you. If you could, you would even forbid him to appear in public places alone.

Proof of love

We all like to listen to praise and passionate confessions, but they are never enough for you. You threaten, manipulate and throw tantrums so that he once again says / proves and reassures you.

But it doesn’t help.

You do not believe him, you are looking for a catch and confirmation that you are indifferent to him in order to indulge in suffering.

An occupation

You don’t like the fact that he can be fine without you. Disgusting! After all, you have forgotten the last time you enjoyed life outside of his company. If it were your choice, you would work with him, and replace his friends, and mother and father, and anyone else.

You don’t like being on your own. All the joys of life fade if he is not around.

At risk

Roof-bearing love, like love in general, can suddenly appear when you don’t expect it at all. But still, there is a certain type of girls who are at risk of going off the coils more than others:

  • Insecure girls who believe that with the man they love they will begin to love themselves. Unfortunately, this doesn’t work. In a relationship, such a lady becomes overgrown with even greater complexes and doubts and becomes hysterical and jealous.

  • Girls who hope that relationships will save their lives from chaos. It doesn’t work like that. On the contrary, if there is confusion in your head and in life, it is likely that harmonious relationships will bypass you. And besides, it’s not fair – you get a full-fledged partner, and he should become your caring mother and a free psychotherapist.
  • Halves. Some women do not feel like whole individuals if there is no man around. They almost physically feel like halves, and are looking for someone who will fill their spiritual emptiness. But in order to have a happy relationship and harmony with yourself, you need to love your own society and begin to appreciate it.

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