The psychology of women is so different from that of men that it is sometimes completely incomprehensible how couples are created and what keeps them together. Women’s psychology for men is a dark forest in which it is easy to get lost. However, this does not mean at all that women should not even try to understand. On the contrary, the more a partner knows about his woman, the easier it will be for him to build relationships with her.
Fundamentals of female psychology
What is at the core of femininity? The answer is emotions and feelings. Complement their pride and contradiction. Women perceive the whole world through emotions. Everything that happens around them they feel much sharper than the strong half of humanity. If conflicts arise in a couple, then the ladies with great pleasure shift the responsibility onto their partner.
Ladies make high demands on their gentlemen. Most often, pride makes them demonstrate independence in solving complex problems. However, when this does not work, then the matter comes to a standstill.
Speaking of women, it is impossible not to mention their love of gossip. This is one of the sides of their nature, not being able to hold back emotions inside, they try to exchange it with other people. They are always looking for “free ears” to share their experiences and thoughts. It is very important for them to receive the support and understanding of loved ones.
However, in the desire to achieve their own, ladies do not hesitate to manipulate people. This style of behavior is passed from one woman to another from generation to generation. Often women do not dare to directly ask for something, therefore, they try to build a whole scheme in such a way that the idea of helping her comes to a person’s mind as if by chance. Women love to manipulate even in everyday life. The peculiarities of female psychology include increased attention to their appearance. Their self-esteem is highly dependent on the admiration of outsiders. Especially if admiration is expressed by men. It is for them that ladies spend long hours in front of the mirror and wear terribly uncomfortable heels.
Women’s psychology for men
Speaking of female psychology, men mean by this a whole science that studies the thinking of ladies and their manner of behavior. Mutual understanding is the foundation of harmonious relationships in a couple. For example, ladies require much more attention to their person than their chosen ones. Hence the passion for gifts, flattering speeches and other signs of attention. No wonder folk wisdom says that women love with their ears. For them, the partner’s voice, his intonation, what he says and how is really very important. Many actions performed by women cannot be explained with the help of logic, as they very often go on about their feelings.
This is where the duality of their character is manifested: if you obey your chosen one and her whims, then she will consider her boyfriend to be henpecked; and if a man does not make concessions and always remains with his own opinion, then this is perceived as indifference and unwillingness to compromise.
In the female subconscious is the idea that the initial actions must always come from a man. However, psychologists say that the stronger sex focuses on those ladies who themselves do not hesitate to show attention. Such conditions should serve to bring partners closer together.
The peculiarity of female psychology in relation to men is that women can be made the strongest possible impression at the first meeting. Therefore, a man must catch the attention of a lady even at the first contact.
Qualities of a man that ladies pay attention to:
- High level of intelligence.
- Perseverance in achieving the goal.
- Honor, nobility, gallantry.
- Nice smile and good looks.
For a woman, the high mental abilities of a man make a great impression. No wonder they say that “the brain is the sexiest organ of a man.” If a man has them, then even his appearance may not be so important. This is not so absurd, if we take into account the fact that high mental abilities help the boyfriend to choose the right words in order to win over the lady. But limited mental abilities make a negative impression.
A real man always purposefully goes to the intended goal. It will not be difficult for a persistent gentleman to earn the favor of a lady.
The ability to listen and empathize can have a positive impact on building relationships. Girls are very good at reliable men who respect their chosen ones, their behavior and choice.
For some incomprehensible reason, women believe that all the attention of her man should be focused only on her alone, beloved and unique. When their expectations are not met, they begin to be offended, jealous and sort things out. Moreover, if a man is not going to follow their lead, then this can lead to serious disagreements and a break in relations.
Girls are very sensitive natures who are ready to sympathize with everyone and everyone. Therefore, they pick up street kittens and raise them in their home, sympathize with the elderly and the crippled, give alms to the poor.
Women treat men the same way. Particularly compassionate are ready to connect their lives with a loser in order to somehow improve his life, “make a man out of him”. For many “saviors” even the financial side of the issue does not matter. They are ready to plow at three jobs in order to pull on their family and their boyfriends. Some ladies are made happy simply by the knowledge that there is a man next to them.
Women love to pay attention to small details. It is observation that allows them to form their opinion regarding the stronger sex. Of great importance are the presented bouquets, gifts and compliments.
For example, if you visit one event with a woman, and then discuss it, then from her statements it will be possible to understand that she has focused her attention on details. For example, what were those present wearing, who said what, and who looked at whom, furnishings. For a man, the event itself and the course of its implementation are of the greatest interest.
Women are very illogical and sometimes do not even understand themselves. However, this gives them an aura of originality and mystery, which arouses the admiration of men.