How do I make him miss me? Do that EXACTLY!

How do I make him miss me? Do that EXACTLY!
How do I make him miss me? Do that EXACTLY!

Do you have the feeling that somehow you are out of breath and he takes you for granted?

Would you like him to take care of you and your relationship again? Or has he left you and you want him to miss you and finally realize what he had in you?

Then the following tips are just right for you! Because with a few tricks you can easily make him miss you. You just have to help him a little bit!

So let’s not waste any time and get started right away:

What do I have to do to make him miss me?

There are a few ways you can get him to miss you. To do this, you have to change your behavior towards him immediately and, above all, think more about yourself again. It is very important that you really internalize the following tips and follow them consistently so that they work. 

And should that be so easy?

Of course, it won’t be easy for you because you have to work on your behavior above all. But it’s definitely possible to make him miss you in a short amount of time. And this view is worth the effort, isn’t it?

If you want to count, you need to be rare.

I still know this saying from my grandma and what was true then will still work today. And that brings us to the essential basis of the following tips:

You shouldn’t chase after him or be the one who always gets in touch with him first. Make yourself interesting by not always being available for him!

So that he misses you, you should pay particular attention to the following points:

  • Withdraw from him and keep your distance, even if it is difficult for you.
  • Take more time for yourself and the things that make you happy.
  • Trigger subliminal emotions in him with a unique, subtle scent or a personal item that you accidentally forgot.
  • Awaken his hunting instinct by interacting with other men as well.

So that it is easier for you to implement the tips, let’s take a look at the whole thing in detail. 

How do I make him miss me? With these tips, he is guaranteed to miss you

Step 1: Keep your distance

Are you always available to him and are you usually the first to get in touch? Then why should he miss you too?

Create some distance between you and take free space and yourself. But be careful not to overdo it, otherwise you will give the impression that you are no longer interested in him!

If you usually spend the whole weekend together, why not meet a friend for a cocktail on a Saturday evening.

He will not expect this and will be surprised and very quickly no longer take your presence for granted.

Make yourself interesting by withdrawing and paying attention to the following points:

  • Stop calling or texting him.

If you keep checking in with him, he won’t have time to miss you! Keep a little distance, he will quickly notice that something is missing. This will make him think of you and automatically miss you.

  • Be the one to end the conversation.

Being available to talk to him on the phone for an indefinite period of time doesn’t necessarily make you more interesting. So in the future, be the one who ends the conversation, after all, you also have a life of your own!

He will quickly notice that he is not always first and will start fighting for your attention.

  • Don’t reply to his messages right away.

When he gets in touch with you, you would love to immediately leave everything and write back, that’s understandable. But if you want him to miss you, you have to make him long for your answer too.

If he calls, don’t answer, just call back after a few minutes. If he writes you, the same applies: wait at least 10 minutes before you answer him.

Step 2: Think more about yourself again

You have probably concentrated a lot on him and on your relationship lately and have come up short yourself.

After you have withdrawn from him, it is very important that you think about yourself more again. This will distract you and avoid the temptation to get in touch with him.

Focus back on the things that are really important to you and that make you friends. For example, treat yourself to a wellness day with your girlfriend again and finally take time for your hobbies again! You will notice how good this is for you and how you automatically feel stronger and more independent.

And that’s exactly the point: Your independence is the key to success!

For him there is one woman who is particularly interesting

  • knows exactly what she wants.
  • which does not make her happiness dependent on him.
  • go their own way instead of chasing it.

In other words, a woman who is self-confident, independent, and at peace with herself.

“Only those who love themselves can also be loved by others.”

Do you know this saying? There is a lot of truth in him! So start loving yourself and taking care of yourself, his longing will be awakened automatically.

Step 3: trigger emotions

Always wear the same subtle scent when you meet. He will associate it with you very quickly and long to be able to smell it again soon. But make sure that you don’t apply too much!

Be mysterious and surprise him again and again with small details from your life. Come up with an extraordinary date spontaneously. He will definitely find these traits exciting and never get enough of them!

If you feel very good, spread a positive mood, after all, he should feel good around you and long for it!

Step 4: Awaken his hunting instinct

Are you one of the good girls and principles like fidelity and loyalty is important to you? That is very commendable and should definitely stay that way! 

BUT: What speaks against having a nice chat with your colleague and casually reporting to your husband about it later? Or to have a friendly phone call with the craftsman while he is waiting for you in the room next door and hears every word? Right, nothing speaks against it!

What I’m getting at: You don’t have to cut yourself off completely from the male outside world just because you’re taken! Believe me, it will arouse his hunting instinct when you have contact with other men. Because he would like to be your number 1 in every situation!

And it makes you interesting when he realizes he’s not the only one who has your attention!

Will he really miss me or forget me?

This is actually very easy to answer: it depends on his feelings for you! You will tell whether he misses you by whether and how he reacts. No matter how shy a man is, he will signal to you that he is longing for you. Believe me, you will find out.

Even if you might be afraid to implement the tips and would like to retreat into a snail shell:

Face the truth. If he has no feelings for you (anymore), then don’t waste another second thinking about him.

If, however, feelings are involved, then you will definitely get him to miss you with the tips and you can rekindle the fire in him.

And you should definitely not miss this attempt!

similar questions

How do I get him to contact me?

If he doesn’t get in touch with you, can you just not take it and write to him after a short time? It may sound trite now, but stop it!

Of course, it is understandable that you miss him and would like to share your whole life with him. But it can also be too much for him under certain circumstances. So give him a little more space and thus the possibility that he, too, may miss you.

How do I make him love me?

When you are sure that he has feelings for you and you realize that he misses you too, it is time to take the next step: love should turn into love.

Make sure you have a good time seeing each other. Show him how much he means to you, but don’t run after him. Be confident, happy, and just be yourself! It is important to find the right balance in everything.


Don’t be available for him as a matter of course and don’t run after him!

Think more about yourself again and focus again on the things that are personally important to you. You will automatically gain self-confidence and become more attractive and interesting for him!

If you follow the other tips consistently, he can’t help it: He’ll start to miss you!

Do you want him to miss you? What tips will you implement for this?

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