No annoying boyfriends of the girl you like are capable of delivering as many problems as her nasty girlfriend can deliver. Almost every attractive cutie has at least one of these, a model of harmfulness and arrogance. And do not doubt that she will make every effort to prevent your acquaintance. If you are with a friend who liked this lady, solving the problem is not so difficult. But what if you are single and a promising romantic acquaintance is on the verge of collapse? In this article we will try to find the answer to this question.
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Finding the cause is solving half the problem
Why did this unpleasant person turn out to be in a society of such an attractive and interesting girl? It so happened that almost every pretty girl has a girlfriend who is inferior to her in terms of attractiveness, and there can be many reasons for this. Have you ever thought that the girl who aroused your interest looks attractive against the background of her friend? Perhaps this is the secret, but now we are interested in something else – why is this girlfriend so hostile towards you?
The answer suggests itself, following from the previous one. How common do you think it is that an interesting guy like you takes notice of the brighter and more attractive of two girlfriends? Yes, the reasons for jealousy and envy have accumulated long before your appearance, and all the power of these impartial feelings will be brought down on you or on any other member of the opposite sex who dared to approach these two girls. As you can see, there is nothing unexpected or surprising in this.
Tactics and strategy
Whether you like it or not, you will have to interact with both at the beginning of your acquaintance. You already have a slight advantage, because only a very determined young man can approach two girls at once, and such girls like it. And you have to like them both. Do not try to ignore an unpleasant girlfriend and try to communicate only with the beauty you are interested in, you will have to communicate with both, listen to one and the other. A friend should be included in your conversation and not feel superfluous. If he feels, he will mobilize his entire arsenal against you.
Get ready to buy drinks for two girls at once and double your sense of humor. If you manage to make them both laugh, you are on your way to your goal. Your friendly humor will easily overcome all the negativity that an unpleasant girlfriend will have sooner or later, and you will find yourself against her background in a favorable light. You can also use a joke in order to unobtrusively and subtly make it clear which of the two girls your interest is directed to.
There are two things you should never do in a situation like this. Firstly, you can’t go into conflict with a nasty lady, especially if she starts to deliberately provoke him. Any venomous comments addressed to you only play into your hands if you remain nice and friendly, when, as a competition in wit with your opponent, you can get sideways. You can laugh off her phrases bordering on insults, but do not try to offend or humiliate her even in the form of a joke.
Secondly, do not try to openly drive up to the beauty you are interested in until you are alone with her. Her friend will take advantage of her presence to scathingly comment on your attempts and make you look bad. Keep your hormones in check, you are not a dick in pants, but an interesting, versatile, outgoing and friendly good guy, of which there are very few now. By the way, left alone with an unpleasant girlfriend, you can use this situation to your advantage. Talk to her, ask her to talk about her friend, you can wrap this question in a comic form, she will understand everything anyway. And in no case do not show aggression towards her, even alone with her.
How to gently and unobtrusively get rid of a stranger
Sooner or later, the moment will come when being alone with the girl you are interested in will be important and necessary, and you will have to get rid of her friend. Of course, we are not talking about expelling her, much less physically eliminating her.
The easiest way is to invite a girl to dance if there is a dance floor nearby. Dance is a dialogue between two people, and a friend will definitely not go under your feet, and you will take a moment to be alone and talk not only in words, but also in body language. Natural biological needs will also give you the window you need: sooner or later, a harmful girlfriend will want to go to the toilet. True, she can drag her friend with her, so the method is not the most reliable.
And you can always tell an unpleasant friend about your lonely friend. You probably have at least one of these, but do not rush to name his name, because in the most extreme case, in order to separate your target from her girlfriend, you will have to take the “help of the hall”. Yes, in the bar where you meet, there may certainly be a guy whose acquaintance also didn’t work out, and you can easily offer him to help you “separate” the girls. And if he connects, it will be much easier for you to be alone with your attractive stranger. Ask how to express your interest in her?
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