Of course, you have heard such words that behind every successful man there is a smart woman. It is she who is the incentive to achieve financial well-being. She inspires a man, gives him confidence. Let’s talk about how to inspire a man to success.
What does “inspire” mean?
Do not confuse the concept of “inspire” and “receive”, “control”. “Inspire” comes from the word “fill”. You know that the Muse is necessary for the creators in order for them to achieve success. So after all, you can be a Muse for your husband.
Any woman is endowed with great power, and how she disposes of it depends on the success of a man. Vedic philosophy states that a wife can be both a curse and a blessing to her husband. Unfortunately, our realities are such that we forget that we are Muses. It is the Muse that inspires a man to new achievements, making money, success, prosperity.
Muse believes in her husband, inspires him. Of course, a man is an adult who does not need to be dragged or pushed. He himself reaches the goal, develops. But thanks to sincere support, it will be easier for him to achieve his goals. Here we are talking about EMO-rational feeding.
After all, it is not for nothing that in family psychology there is such a judgment, according to which, if a woman respects respects respect, then his yuva ivazh. If no one appreciates a man at home, then he will also be treated in society.
The difference between motivation and manipulation
When communicating with a man, it is important not to put the manipulation of motivation. When manipulating, you get benefits for a short period of time.
Suppose you demand a fur coat by hook or by crook. The man is already tired of Your Scandals, Manipulations, “you won’t buy a fur coat, Then I …”, and an endless list can follow here. He is tired of your attacks and goes to the fur salon.
Of course, he will buy you a fur coat, but he will not receive an EMO rational return from you. He will do it to keep you behind. He himself will feel unsatisfied and weak. With the right motivation, the husband himself will want to buy you a fur coat from the salon, he will come out the winner.
He will be happy to give you flowers, gifts, compliments. Not because it was asked for, but because he likes it. If you motivate a man correctly, he will be successful in all matters.
How to inspire and motivate a man for success?
Basic principles of inspiration for a man
If you sob, hysteria for any reason, scream, play silent, but the situation is not resolved in any way, then this is a consequence of the fact that you are acting with patterns that have nothing to do with inspiration. They indicate that you do not know how to find an approach to a man.
Consider the 4 main principles of inspiring men:
- Simplicity of expression
A man does not perceive complex turns. When communicating with him, you need to speak in simple phrases, without describing the details. Speak clearly and to the point. Be specific, be simple. Discuss a specific situation that is important at this point in time.
Let’s say you need money to buy groceries. Just tell your husband to give you a specific amount for groceries. You should not go into the story that you are tired of pasta, that a friend is having dinner at a restaurant, and a colleague consumes only red caviar for breakfast. Speak confidently and kindly.
- Non-standard approach
Try to tell a man something that he did not expect to hear from you. An unusual approach leads him into a trance, and he will agree to anything.
Let’s say: “Today I read in a magazine what foods have a positive effect on potency. Give me so much money. I went to the store, I’ll bring what I need.” Pay attention to intonation. It should be different from your usual one. In this case will have to be creative.
When motivating, be confident and active. If you monotonously say something from the couch, it will not help. Flicker in front of a man’s eyes. Be beautiful, desirable for him. You can say something like: “Give me money, and I’ll cook just a royal dinner.”
When talking, the distance between you should be minimal. And not only physical, but also psychological. The last type of distancing is reduced by indicating similarities between you and differences from others.
“My s toboy streams k zdorovamo obrazu zhizni, poetomu silnye and mozhem seb posvolite on you ne bank lu. Give me money for groceries, I will cook a dinner that is worthy for us.”
How to inspire a man?
To inspire a man, you need to take specific actions:
- Accept him for who he really is. Don’t redo it. Get rid of the idea that you are better than your husband in some matters. Don’t perfect it. Accept it with all the shortcomings, with all the qualities.
- Appreciate his best STORons, what he does for you. Appreciate it for what you have now. For the house, even if not as big as we would like, for not walking. Let this not be the car you see in your dreams. And you need to do it in such a way that your husband knows that you appreciate him. To those who are afraid of it.
- Admire a man, his virtues, masculinity, deeds, talents. Admiration is important for a man. He needs it like he needs bread. A man will do anything for the woman he loves who admires him.
- Follow your husband. Trust him, his decision, accept his authority. Of course, a man’s decision may differ from yours, but this does not mean that it is wrong.
- Let your husband be the leader and breadwinner and protect you. Stop taking on the responsibility of dragging your family. Trust me, you won’t starve. A man will be forced to move forward, to grow. He will have another way out, how to gain success. Only a feminine girl can increase masculinity. Therefore, be in the family a fairy, a goddess. Be beautiful, well-groomed, gentle.
- Give a man the opportunity to manage finances. If he does not provide for his family, cannot find a job for a long time, then this is a signal that you have taken on his role in the house. You saw the chosen one and at the same time you go to 2-3 jobs. Remember, the husband’s slippers are alone in the house. Who put them on, toti fulfills this role. If you want a strong man next to you, then you must have the courage to believe in him, trust and expect him to take this responsibility upon himself.
- Let yourself want. If you praise your husband, inspire, admire him, then let him show that you are not impersonal to him. Men’s nature is such that they like to make a woman happy. If you suppress your desires, then your husband will do nothing for you. The more a man invests in a woman, the more he loves her.
- Grow like a woman. This is your strength. If you are feminine, happy, resolute, then next to you will be calm, strong, confident imu.ybna Take care of yourself.
The woman is the foundation of the man. It is she who sets the atmosphere of the family. If you understand your strengths, you will soon realize the sphere of your influence on your husband. By inspiring, supporting and believing in your husband, you will get a strong and successful man. If you take on the role of the earner, then he will not do anything. The choice is yours.