How to make a husband confess to cheating and can it be done? From one of the stations of Samka, it was assigned to the owners of the apartments. No, in such a sensitive topic, it is not circumstantial evidence that is important, but either direct evidence or a sincere confession. Otherwise, you run the risk of creating a problem that was not there in the first place.
How to get recognition?
No, where it isn’t necessary, in other words, it’s not worth it. Moreover, they begin to swear eternal devotion, like a faithful dog. No soglass, not when you see it, it’s that word: “Byla isn’t it?”.
In the words that are written in the logical question: “How to bring the traitor to clean water and force him to confess.” Let’s be honest, the issue is complex but solvable. Below Samka will introduce you to the assistants in the form of certain tricks that will provide you with maximum assistance in resolving the stated issue.
Why a man does not admit to treason?
Do you want to ask about “How?” Look, the answer to it will be those guidelines that will help you choose the right tactics and find the right words.
Within the framework of one article, as you understand, this issue will not be dealt with extensively, because otherwise, the format of the article will be transformed into a book guide on the topic “Why does the husband not tell the truth?”
No need to save the selected aspects of the project, such as:
- a lover, as they say, is nothing more than a girl for health;
- you, in the event of a divorce, will have a division of property through the court;
- the husband is afraid that you can limit communication with the children;
- the husband is satisfied with the current situation, where the mistress acts as a holiday, and you, that is, the wife, is the usual style;
- in the case that it is necessary and not private.
- betrayal was one-time;
- connection on the side, for a man, is akin to walking on a razor’s edge, that is, it gives him an adrenaline rush. And it is not the physical act itself that attracts, but the fear of exposure.
In addition to it, it is possible to move it to the right place:
Signs of male infidelity. How to find out if it changes or not?
- The man was not going to leave the family
- From adultery confession other material storage
- A man is afraid of losing touch with children.
Wishing to bring the Husband to clean Water, You need to understand Which of the reasons for His Silence is most suitable for Your particular situation. This is what will help to build a dialogue in such a way that in the end, he confesses to adultery.
- You are a physiognomist
The paramount step is that it is important for the husband, with his question, to take him by surprise. No, before you take this step, you must prepare. This is to study the material on physiognomy. More detailed information is available in the selected state.
During the study question, Samka will tell you why it is so important to become a physiognomist for a while. The thing is that when a person lies, no matter how hard he tries to hide the truth, he cannot control his physiological reactions to questions or situations that are unexpected for him.
To take your husband by surprise with a spontaneous question, and his reaction to it will be one of your main trump cards. As if you already know the truth, and his answer is nothing more than a confirmation.
You can say something like this: “I know that you are cheating on me!” And with the slightest misunderstanding in one of the words:
And this is where the fun begins. As you remember, a liar will be betrayed by his uncontrolled reaction of the body to an unexpectedly asked question. Your task is to catch it in a split second. Watch his eyes carefully, the following will indicate a lie:
- Posmotrel vlevo and vniez, znachit fantaziruet and pridumywaet lozhny kartinku.
- He looks straight to the left, which means he is looking for the right words that will sound the most believable.
- Down and to the left, says that he remembers real smells, tastes, and tactile sensations.
As mentioned above, you can read more about the body language of a liar in one of the articles. Also, Paul Ekman’s specialized books “The Psychology of Lies” and Alan Pease’s “Body Language” will help you.
As You Understand, Samka Pays special attention to physiognomy, Pointing out that it is she who is the first step in detecting infidelity – for good reason. When sign language betrays your husband with giblets, it will be much easier for you to maintain confidence
To that end, it is not necessary to recycle, and to heat, because it is necessary for small rooms. This means that when doubts prevail, a person, as they say, does not press the other, and can stop halfway. Let’s move on to the next step.
- Appeal facts
What do you think is the easiest time for a person to confess? Hint – when his lies are smashed to smithereens. Therefore, in addition to understanding the body language of a liar, it is important to have at least some facts. Let’s say you know for sure that the husband did not stay at work, but was with his mistress (as an option, someone you know saw them together and told you).
Don’t give out this INFO right away. Try to ask your husband in detail about what he allegedly did at work. Unlike the truth, a hastily invented lie is not fixed in the memory, so the liar, when asked to repeat what was said, will begin, as they say, to get confused in the testimony.
The more you identify such inconsistencies, the more confused and vulnerable the husband will be: the feeling of being cornered can give rise to a desire, to tell the truth. Although, the husband may switch to aggression, and try to redirect attention to you.
Therefore, it is important to record such attempts with his STORona and not succumb to provocations. And in this, the next important step will help you.
- You are a good psychologist
In this part, it is important to take into account the reasons why the husband is not ready to admit to infidelity. Let’s say he is worried that after the divorce you will interfere with meetings with the children. Build a dialogue in such a way that his fears are minimized.
Suggestions for those who want to:
“After your betrayal, which holds together the foundations like trust, there is no more in our family. No, it is not necessary to do so, it is necessary to say that there is some other available equipmente. No matter how our relationship develops, children should not suffer. You understand that in a family where there is no trust, the effect of life on a volcano will reign.
As you can imagine, not everyone will be happy. Why do we hurt children? If you want to know it and try it as small as possible.
As you can see from the above example, it is very important to nullify a person’s fears, to give the best option for resolving the current situation. In some cases, even show some benefit. Moreover, it will be much easier for the husband to confess if he is sure that you understand him, and even to some extent empathize with him.
It is also important to try to appeal to his honesty and decency. Agree, most people, one way or another, consider themselves as such. If you ask for the first time:
“I have never deceived you, and I have always been honest with you. Moreover, I know you as an honest person, so don’t destroy my good opinion of you, tell the truth. Now only she can maintain friendly relations between us and will not let us turn into enemies.
If you love detective series, then you have probably seen how the negotiators behave and what they say. They give the criminal exactly the information that gives him the feeling that others understand him, and therefore pose a direct threat.
In cases of infidelity, a direct threat is a divorce with all the consequences. Your task is to switch the husband’s attention from the threat to your understanding of his act, that is, betrayal. It is easy to Guess that this castling will distract from the consequences of exposure, and as a result, will lead to the decision that you need to tell the truth.
Samoa is not only your psychologist but figuratively speaking, your lawyer who always acts in your interests. Therefore, we need to warn you against some rash actions that can only worsen
- Do not resort to blackmail, like “If you don’t confess, I’ll file for divorce!” Firstly, the husband can and did not cheat on you, therefore, accordingly, he has nothing to confess.
Secondly, keep in mind that blackmail can give rise to aggression. Don’t forget about hosting negotiators. If they began to threaten and blackmail criminals, nothing good would happen.
- Remember that if you want to get the truth, it is important to speak softly, with a share of empathy, but with the confidence of the gue ve.
- Before filing for divorce, you should not rely on your guesses and suspicions, but by 200% sure that there was a betrayal: with your own eyes to see his photo with another, intimate correspondence, etc., and tp.
- Not all you want is to say that you can skim the drugs. Be careful with the names of the people who live there.