How to understand that a man is serious about a woman? It would be just wonderful if every man at the beginning of a relationship honestly declared his intentions – “I’m only trying so hard because I want to sleep with you” or “I’m ripe for a serious relationship, and I actually really like you.”
Oh, dreams are dreams.
Everything would be so simple and… boring.
While we live in an imperfect world. We can’t read minds. So we continue to play games and try to beat each other.
How to understand that a man is serious about you?
How to understand that a man is serious about a woman?
Check list
- Joint plans
Which of the two of you makes more concessions? Are you willing to skip a family dinner, a friend’s birthday, and a manicure appointment just to meet him, and he doesn’t put in any effort?
Hm. The picture emerges as it is. It looks like you spoiled him too much – why make an effort, change your schedule and limit yourself in anything if you run to him at the first call? If meeting with you is not a priority for him, this man doesn’t really need you.
Does he ask when you have the weekend, is he ready to reschedule an important meeting or going to a bar with friends just to take you to the movies? Keep it up my friend, you’re on the right track.
- Regular communication
You don’t have to text every hour, every minute, and every second. Another thing is important here – if you do not get in touch, say, for two or three days, will he show concern? Will he ask how you spend your time? Or is all your communication based on the fact that you are actively looking for contact, and he throws you a couple of emoticons from his master’s shoulder?
If a man is serious about you, he will be interested in you and your leisure.
The more serious he is, the more he thinks about you. No matter how busy his day is, he will find time to write to you. Either today or tomorrow. But not in a week.
- A little more about joint plans
Friends invited him to the wedding. A friend threw a couple of tickets to the concert. In general, he had the opportunity to have a good time and share this pleasure with someone else.
Did he invite you along? How do you know if a man is serious? He automatically perceives you as his “+1”.
- He shares with you what he loves
It happens that you wildly liked the series. Or a restaurant. Or a book. And then all this begins to get involved in a person who you do not like. And I want to take away this book, this series or this restaurant from him. I don’t want to share my treasure with this rabble.
But when a person is interesting to us, we really want to introduce him to our hobbies. Let him into your world. So if he takes you to his favorite non-mainstream pub that no one knows about, or tells you to watch your favorite TV show, go for it. He will appreciate it. Plus, you will have a common topic for discussion. And you can learn more about his tastes (and, if necessary, escape).
When we are interested in a person, we want to impress him. Even if we are all super independent and would not give a damn about someone else’s opinion. When we fall in love, we try to look our best, joke funniest, and talk smarter. Hell, we’re just trying really hard. Both men and women. Men try really hard even when they want a one night stand. If you have already had sex (and more than one), and he is still trying to impress you, he is in your hands.
- He is always ready to help
A man will spend time with a woman only in two cases: he wants to be with her or he just wants her. What is your case? Go through the points above and below.
- Joint photos
If you yourself do not like to be photographed or think that the personal should remain personal – ok. If he refuses to be photographed with you, but at the same time actively posts photos with his friends and girlfriends, this is a reason to think.
- In sickness and health
Do you feel bad and can’t get out of bed, he says that he is super busy at work and sends sad emoticons, and in the evening you find out from his Instagram that he hangs out with friends? And after that you ask yourself the question “How to understand that a man is serious?” Are you f@cking laughing?
If a man is serious, he will take care of you. And he goes to the pharmacy, and buys groceries, and arrives. And let him shove the sad emoticons up his ass. Especially since that’s where your relationship is.
How does he introduce you to his friends and acquaintances?
If he is serious about you, then he will briefly and clearly let everyone know that you are his woman. Not a girlfriend, not an acquaintance, not a “beloved colleague”, but a woman with whom he has a serious relationship.
- Circle of associates
You don’t have to arrange a meet and greet in the second week of the relationship.
But if he is serious, he will not hide you in the shadows. Prepare the ground – inform family and close friends that he is dating a beautiful woman. And after a while they will arrange an acquaintance. If the meeting with his parents or friends happens suddenly, he will not evade and evade the answer. Like, so and so, get acquainted, this is my girlfriend. He loves you, you love him too, so why pull the cat by the tail?
How to understand that a man is serious about a woman?
