If a man blocked you from everywhere, what does it mean – this is the end or he will return?
Panic, resentment, anger, sadness, and fear immediately begin. You are overwhelmed with emotions, you do not know what to do now. What does it mean? What is the real reason for doing this? Is there a chance to return the relationship? How to behave in this situation?
The man blocked – what is the reason
No matter what, that’s what it is about. It all depends on the reason that the man blocked you. All you have to do is ask for it.
The reasons will depend on the stage at which your relationship is, the situation that was the day before.
If your relationship has just started, you have only a few meetings, then you might have been confused then that then that that that that that that that that that that that that that that that that that that that that that that that that that that that that that that that
- he realized that you are not suitable for him, and decided to avoid “unpleasant” conversations – this is the position of a person who does not like to take responsibility and act like an adult. The fact that he might not like you is quite normal. People do not have to please everyone, and this is impossible. No where it is said that this is the case and it is possible – on this side it is not that;
- his wife returned from a business trip or from her parents – in order not to impersonate your calls and messages, he quickly decided to stop communicating;
- he manipulates you – arranges an emotional swing so that you suffer, wonder what is wrong, try to be “good”, and he would “forgive” you and arrange a wonderful date. Such manipulators are very clever at controlling girls, making them dependent.
In all these cases, the fact that he stopped communicating is a good opportunity for you to let your feelings cool down a bit and look at this person from an objective point of view.
But what if you already know him well, you had a relationship and it seemed to you that everything was serious and you were pleased to talk, and he suddenly blocked you? What is the reason then? Think about whether there was a quarrel or a scene of jealousy on the eve of what happened? Maybe it’s just his reaction to a certain situation. You might not attach much importance to it, it may seem non-obvious. Try to look at the situation through his eyes. What feelings did he have? What experiences did he experience?
If there is a conflict between the two, post it on the day. Are his claims correct? Analyze your behavior. Were you right? It is not necessary to give it to the mother, it is only possible to have it. It is important to be honest in a relationship.
What to do if a loved one does not want to communicate and blocked everywhere?
After a quarrel, he, as a rule, “cools down” and returns to your life. It’s important to talk about what happened. Don’t forget about the pretenses and no python “save the wine”, and it’s easy to see and do. Try to hear his point of view and understand it. Solve the problem together so that it no longer affects your relationship.
No byywet, that’s why it’s not by the way. You thought everything was fine. Then you need to analyze the relationship as a whole. Think about it, did you limit his freedom too much? Isn’t it worth it? Didn’t she bombard you with constant messages asking where he was and with whom? The reason is clear, you love him and are afraid to lose him. You want to show him your feelings. No you each person has a different need for intimacy.
It could seem to a man that you are too intrusive, and your love caused him the fear of losing his freedom, the fear of losing his freedom. This is fine. If you don’t want to do that, you will have to wait until you see it. It’s just that your degree of attachment to each other did not match. No, it is not necessary, but it is not necessary.
If this is the reason for the blocking, then give him time to rest and comprehend everything, to miss you. It is important to consider whether it is worth continuing to express your love in this way. After all, when he returns, if the relationship does not change, the problem will not be resolved.
What not to do?
When you are blocked, your friends are happy to give you advice. Since you are overwhelmed with emotions, you may not think critically enough, and you yourself will not be completely exhausted.
To prevent this from happening, here are a few actions that should not be done under any circumstances:
- try to take revenge on him;
- call him from someone else’s number;
- convey through mutual friends that everything is fine with you and you are already communicating with others;
- “stalking” him and trying to find out the relationship personally;
- tell mutual acquaintances about his act so that he “becomes ashamed”;
- start to apologize and make excuses when he, nevertheless, unblocked you;
- when unlocking, immediately shower it with messages or calls.
All this not only does not help, but further exacerbates the situation. The main thing that you should – is to understand the reasons for his act. Ponyat, as it is now possible, not before this is done so that it is possible to do so. And is it even possible. Moreover, it is important to decide for yourself whether you are ready to continue this relationship if he gets in touch.
How to behave if he blocked you from everywhere?
If trying to “get through” to him, that is, to get in touch, is useless, then what to do? The best thing you can do is use this pause to understand yourself. Think about it, has your life started to get hung up on him, and not on yourself? Analyze yourself, your attitude towards him. Do you violate psychological boundaries, do you become addicted?
Think about what good you can get out of this situation? You have more free time and energy. Therefore, it’s time to engage in self-development, sports, find a new hobby. Chat with friends whom you have not seen for a long time, find new ones.
If you want to learn how to build an equal healthy relationship, without emotional swings and sudden breakups, the most important quality that you must acquire is the ability to be happy outside of the relationship with him. You don’t need a man to be joyful and live a colorful life.
The paradox is that as soon as you realize this, a man will immediately appear. Positive, cheerful people who value their freedom are always more attractive. They attract people, you want to communicate with them. I want to be a part of their life.
When you acquire positive thinking, have RONONE in yourself, lightness and openness, with a look and many more ft. If the man returns, then you will already build relationships differently. If he doesn’t get in touch, then it’s time for a new stage in your life and new men. Take it as a useful, albeit unpleasant experience that has become an impetus for your self-development and positive changes that have only made you stronger and wiser.