It is normal for everyone to change and go through different phases in the course of their life. Nobody can be happy all the time.
Sometimes you are sad. Sometimes you are not in the mood to hang out with other people.
However, if your boyfriend hasn’t been in the mood to talk to you lately, and your conversations are relatively brief and meaningless, there is clearly something serious behind them.
Every woman notices such behavioral changes in her partner. Every woman notices when a guy suddenly behaves differently than usual.
He no longer does it. He is no longer loving. He no longer shows any affection. This then becomes a problem for the woman. She is confused and worried.
Every relationship has its crises, but that doesn’t mean that you should give up on the first problem.
It is very important to identify the first warning signs that the relationship is coming to an end.
Because then you can try to do something to save the relationship.
Here are some of the messages your friend sends you when he’s been toying with the idea of breaking up with you. Learn to recognize them in time!
1. We have to talk!
Your friend keeps saying you have to talk to each other seriously, but he constantly avoids the conversation. You feel like he wants to tell you something important but just doesn’t dare to do it.
You are full of fears and doubts. You think you did something wrong and you doubt yourself.
As he pushes the conversation on and on, he is really wondering whether or not to break up with you. He calculates all the pros and cons of breaking up with you.
2. I’m coming home late tonight. Do not wait for me!
If a man sends you this message, it is a very bad sign. Such messages come mainly from men who cheat on their wives.
If a guy tells you he’s coming home late, then there is a good chance he is cheating on you.
When a woman receives such a message from her boyfriend, her heart breaks knowing that it is only a matter of time before her boyfriend officially replaces her with another woman.
3. I need some time! I am totally confused!
Hmm Mess, why?
You can’t be confused in a relationship where both partners love each other. Of course, there are problems every now and then. But there is no confusion.
If he really loves you, he will try to understand you and the circumstances that led to this crisis in your relationship.
4. I am really tired! Let’s postpone the meeting until another time!
If your friend only sent you this message a few times, there is nothing to worry about. However, if he keeps canceling your dates, then there has to be a reason for it.
The most common reason is that he just doesn’t feel like spending time with you. The joy of being with you is gone. Chances are, your boyfriend is fed up with your boring routine.
By canceling your meetings, he may be hoping that you will realize that the relationship is no longer working. He wants you to break up with him and save him the trouble.
5. Doesn’t matter!
If a guy doesn’t really care what you say, he doesn’t love you.
Of course, the guy doesn’t have to be excited about everything you say, but if he doesn’t listen to you while you talk about your relationship, then he doesn’t care about you.
6. No answer
No answer is also an answer. If your friend doesn’t reply to your messages, it means they don’t have time for you. How can someone not have time for someone they love?
Well, apparently he doesn’t love you the way he used to.
Don’t worry though! All of these problems can be solved. All you have to do is remind your partner of the good old days.
You’re just going through a difficult period right now. Sit down, talk to each other openly and try to solve the real problems in your relationship!
With a little commitment, love, and support, the old fire can be brought back to life in no time at all.