There is no single and unambiguous attitude of men to smart women. Some of the representatives of the stronger sex sincerely believe that the mind is the most important property of a girl, and will never build a relationship with someone she considers more stupid than herself. Others believe that female intelligence is a hindrance to relationships, and prefer to communicate with ladies who do not have brilliant mental abilities.
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And there will be those who will question the very existence of smart women, because in their view a woman is nothing more than a sex application with cooking and cleaning functions, and not an independent person. In this article, we will try to find out how these types of men differ and how often they occur.
Unfortunately, the most common type of men, which can be attributed to about every second. In their view, a man is a creator and a titan of thought, and a woman is something like attendants. And they are not at all embarrassed that in their entire life the crown of their “creation” is a mountain of beer bottles near the sofa.
The reaction of such men to smart women could be a good plot for a comedy. Because they are absolutely not ready for it. The very appearance next to them of a woman who is familiar with words whose meanings they do not know and who is competent in intellectual areas in which they are not oriented even at the level of secondary education causes cognitive dissonance in them.
This type of man practically does not enter into relationships with smart women, because he is not able to keep a woman’s attention and interest her for more than a minute. But if in some miraculous way they still manage to start such a relationship, their outcome is always predictable: the girl will face domestic tyranny, caused by anger and envy. The best thing a smart woman can do is stay away from these types. However, she understands this very well.
More than half of the remaining men recognize the intellectual abilities of women, but always with a discount and a reservation. Yes, yes, they still exalt themselves, and it is from them that you can hear the phrase “you are very smart for a woman.” It would seem that you should stay away from such people, but in life it often turns out the other way around.
Relations with such men for a smart woman turn into a game in which she always wins, easily manipulating the arrogant and remaining in the shadows. He always makes only those decisions that are beneficial to the woman, and at the same time he is sure that it was his personal initiative, and the woman reaps the fruits of her influence. Such relationships sometimes turn out to be surprisingly strong and durable, but whether they can be called healthy is an open question.
However, this category of men should not be deprived of the right to personal happiness. They are quite capable of building relationships with attractive girls who are not burdened with a baggage of deep knowledge, and live with them in happiness and love. For smart women, this type of men is interesting only from a consumer point of view.
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Deprived of prejudices and intellectually developed men who see a woman as their equal and understand that intellectual abilities are not determined by gender. Despite the seeming rarity, there are still quite a few of them, about one in five men can be classified as such.
They will respect their chosen one, they will always listen to her thoughts and arguments, but this does not mean at all that they will agree with her in everything. An equal partnership is equal because everyone has their own head on their shoulders.
For a smart girl who is tired of one-way relationships, these guys are the best choice. Relationships in such an intellectually developed couple will become especially strong and interesting if a man and a woman have different areas of knowledge and competence.
Imagine how a girl-historian is fascinatingly telling her boyfriend about the events of the French Revolution, and after that, just as enthusiastically listening to the prospects of machine learning methods. Yes, the clash between a techie and a humanitarian sometimes turns from an irreconcilable struggle into a stormy romance if these two are of different sexes.
The minus of such relations is the same as their plus – in equal responsibility. If a girl who is in a relationship with such an unattractive first type of man can push all decisions onto him, then in the case of our equal couple, this cannot be done. However, if it suits you, be happy.
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Focused on the intellect
A rare case among men, but it is still worth mentioning these maniacs. The intellectual abilities of their chosen one become something like a sexual fetish for them, and it seems that spending the night with their beloved’s dissertation will be a more vivid erotic adventure for them than the night with her. At first, the girl is flattered by sincere admiration for her talents and achievements, but over time, this begins to seriously frighten.
Recognizing a looper is quite difficult, because he can mimic one of the two previous types. However, if a woman is as obsessed with her intellectual achievements as such a man, their relationship can be stable and even exciting. However, most girls still prefer to stay away from such partners.
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